Sexting is an excellent foreplay, according to some sex educators. It’s an enjoyable, flirty way to stay connected with your partner. It puts sex on your mind all day and adds a little escapade, which re-creates that loving feeling from the beginning in your relationship.
Show a Bit More but Not All
When sending photos or videos during sexting, you need to get the right angles of your body. You don’t want to reveal your partner your genitals upfront. You need to make it look sexy and teasing to arouse them. Take photos from angles that only reveal the hot part of your body. Take a good shot of your boobs camera is looking down to your boobs, and take a picture of your butt from the bottom up to make it appear as if it’s in his face.
Take Control of the Conversation
When initiating sexting, remember to take control and to be the playful partner who is horny and ready to get kinky. You can use your tone of voice, the right choice of words, and pictures to build a fantasy and arouse them. Do what is comfortable for you. If you can do this with confidence, you can own this and win sexting with your partner.
Know How to Use Sex Codes
Utilizing emojis that are known to serve as sexual innuendos can help set intentions without saying a word is part of sexting. The eggplant and banana are often used to represent the penis. A peach represents the booty. A pussy cat references to the vagina. The emoji with the tongue sticking out indicates desire, and the raindrops note wetness or ejaculate. Using emoji code can help keep a code of conduct if you’re sexting in public.
Do the Dirty Talk
Dirty talking is the guiding light of sexting. The words you use in your messages create a visual of the fantasy that’s unfolding. You can tell your partner what you are wearing and if you are about to take it off. You can explain how your body is responding to what he’s sexting you. You can also instruct your partner on what they can do to themselves while they fantasize about you like “fast or slow.”
Share Your Personal Experience
Start the conversation by using a hot moment from a past sex session. You can text your partner, “I like the way you kissed me last night,” or “I miss your body next to mine.” It is also helpful to let your partner know what you want to do at the moment, “I am now taking off my undies,” or “I want to kiss you so bad down to your body,” to help create the fantasy and build tension.”
